Or, how the car company calls me by my spouse’s name and I don’t correct them! The car lease is in his name so I stopped explaining to the them that we have different names. I am the stay at home dad, therefore I bring the car in for service. Since his name is in their computer, when they ask who I am, it is just easier to say his name. It seems to work for them as well! But don’t worry, i am not taking any chances, my name is on the insurance!
Because we are gay and have a child, we have different last names. I know this is a growing trend as well for married professionals, but I don’t care, this blog is abut me! My son has my spouse’s last name. When we go to the pediatrician they call me Mr. BV as that is the same last name as my son. I stopped explaining the situation and now just enjoy the ignorance! Did I get lazy? Frustrated? No! It’s like I have a secret identity!
I am my mother’s son. I am also in charge of the banking. As with my dad, the bank would not know my spouse’s signature. He prefers me to handle it all, and I sure don’t mind the control!
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